I was having this interesting conversation with a friend today. This is kinda how it went.

D: was this Jackie, my Jackie? refer to my "manyiraring punk" post
T: dunno. have u called me in the dark of the nyt? NOOOOOOOOOOOOO
D: no, by my Jackie, i mean, my stalkee jackie
T: nope, was writing n thats the name that came up
D: ah. i miss her - Jackie
T: lol, 4 real?
D: maybe i should give her a call some time.it will be like old times. see, my problem is i believe in equality. if i'm lining u, T. and i call u about thrice. and in those 3 times i believe we've had good interesting conversation
i expect u to call me 4th time round,if u dont...
T: hmmmm, thats one way of lookin at things, i guess
D: yeah. as i take 3 steps towards u, take 1

Background info: D went through this phase of girlfriend hunting so he was hooked up with Jackie to "friendly stalk"..LOL..i no sounds silly. but nothing wrong with harmless stalking especially when y'al know it aint serious

Main point:
Now, D is my kinda guy i also believe in equality. It can be a bit frustrating for you to like soneone and feel like u r doing all the running around. Now before i cause more problems by openly agreeing with the guyz, let me stop here...

***feel like there was a point...hmmm...wil work on it later!!

The other day i was talking to my sister about the dentist. MAJOR MISTAKE!! We was sharing our war stories and it turns out she wont use my dentist because he accused her of lying to get our of school some odd years ago and did not apologise when investigations revealed that she actually had a few problems.

Wait, did i say "my dentist"?? well in a way he is..im hunting for a new one but thats another story. Im begining to think the guy jinxed me.Met him about 6 months ago in a kwanjula meeting and the first thing he asked was if i had any dental problems!! This before the usual how are u's??

but anyhu, apparently my sister's new dentist checked her teeth awhiles back and he had good news and better news to give her after the check up. She could either get rid of her problem forever or have her tooth built up. Now getting rid of the tooth would not have been a bad thing had it not been for the fact that the tooth was at thr front of her mouth!! LOL, u know those two big teeth we all have? lol

Back to the main point which is i have a dull toothache!! Donwanna go see the dentist coz apparently the consultation fee is a bit too high according to me (( No my job doesnt cover medical or anything for that matter!!)) i hear 60k. Man, all these years i didnt know there was a ka gold mind in dentistry!!!

Just read something that worked me up a bit. i hear ".....just like today’s Pastors who preach the prosperity gospel and spend money lavishly on themselves at the expense of poor church members.
That is why I have no kind words for Pastors who mess around regardless of how ‘anointed’ they claim to be. Like some pastors who buy Hummers. Baz called it a sin and the most vulgar behaviour – bringing a Hummer to the 3rd world". The 27th Comrade "Am i Evil enough?

This is my beef.

1. God blesses your life be in all aspects. So if you choose to use the blessings to buy a hummer, so bloody what? its your life, right?

2. The choice of car depends on personal preferance, need and all that. If i choose a BMW over a corolla II, thats my Biz, not yours. U aint the one driving it, u know!!

3. If your pastor is always talking blessings and riches but drives a starlet, how many would still believe that he serves a miracle working God? Be realistic and be real. No one wants a poor pastor preaching about blessings.

4.A hummer doesnt choose which country it goes to...LOL..so bloody what that it ends up in a 3rd world country? its still a country and it was bought and paid for!!

5. Have u seen the potholes in Kampala? Man, all of us need hummers

On further reflection, the truth is world views have also influenced our views on how "rich" a pastor should or should not look. Realistically, if we werent beefing over the guyz hummer, it would be his house, or his shoes or even his hair cut or lack of!! There probably wont ever be that one level that we think should suit our pastors or politicians or even our siblings!!

If a man misuses his office, it was God given, let him take it up with God, we can talk about this til the cows come home but the fact is God knows your inner most deliberations and knows the reasons why you do what you do. When the Bible says God looks for those who worship him in Spirit and Truth (paraphrased ofcource), its the same thing, God knows and man can be quite judgemental.

OK, i might be loosing all those hard earned points i have been earning but the hell with it.

i cannot tell a lie, i like to play solitaire especially when im refocussing hence i started a poll to gauge how important the game is and guess what? got agreement all the way thru!! Yaay!!

**** Here's the redeeming part, i also like to play PSP2 games, so dont knock my skills!!! lol


***** Now these r things of reading old posts and making me go back to edit. My BFF just assured me that there aint PSP2 games..i was soo amused, i do know that. was just too lazy to go back to change it. plus i think they shd b called PS2G's...makes more sence

Now, i have this thing about cooking which is really wierd considering i barely do any!! ok, thats not neccasarily true..recently i have taken up trying my hand at the recipies i idly come by, makes for interesting dining, i tell ya.

But back to the issue at hand. i was watching food channel with my sister recently and this lady was doing her thing "Rachel's Favourite Food for Friends". ((such a long title, i know, my sister also questioned this. Her title should be ((suggestion)) "Rachel's friends favourite food"..hmmmm

Anyhu, Rachel was busy making spinach lasagne ((yeah, i can see u go ewww, ewww, ewwwwwwww) and she's u know, talking as she makes it.

Now, you know how u can tell that you wont ever make a dish basing on the chefs presentation? look at the chef's face when they taste the food.

The chick looked like she had swallowed something ghastly..lol...she probably had. she made those sounds all of us make when we want to just choke on whatever we have swallowed sounds sort of like ... ((okay i have FAILED to write out the sound but im sure u get the idea))

Al i know is me and spinach lasagne...NEVER to happen!

Yesterday i was soooooo amused, i laughed myself silly and yet when i think of it, it really...(( let me not spoil it,LOL).

So this friend gets into this car to try it out. She goes through the right steps to start up the car.. (( for those of you who actually went to driving school, im sure you can here musisi oba kenny oba sula giving u instructions..check your mirrors...wont bore you with that)))

Now, i tell her that the car wasnt turned on and she insists that it was. Here's the part that really amused me.

She looked like superman about to take flight, her arm resting behind the arm of the passenger chair and her looking into the near future,poised to take on the world.

The suspence was killing me, i could not wait to see her expression when she realised that i was telling her the truth.

SO anyway, 2 minutes of non movement cleared up any illusions she had. The funny thing is, she actually sat there, ready to take off...

OK, a bit of a tough one here. i already brought up this issue with my BBF in the whole Internet so if you are reading this, stop yourself!! This is kinda how my conversation went with the manyiraring punk

MP: Hi, did i wake u?

Me: thinking to myself, i like went to sleep at 9,its 12 now, wat do u think???

well yes...wats up? whats going on?

this is the same chap who could not bother to call me before coz he has been broke

MP: Listen there's this gal here called Jackie. Could u explain to her what we are to each other? she probably wont say anything but please explain to her, okay?

clearly not thinking as fast as i should have been)

Me: Sure thing

MP:OKay, im switching to loud speaker now

Me: Sure
sounds of phone switching mode...

Me: Hi Jackie
suddenly im listening to Nelly, or at least i think it was, probably Akon even..was too drowsy to even know!

MP: I'l call you back
Hangs up.

I look and loooooook at my phone. Maybe i dreamed up the entire episode but nope, my incoming calls show i did recieve a call that lasted 1.14 minutes.

Now for the background data. This guy and me have been friends for a while and recently the idea that maybe we could take the friendship further was being played around with. We had given each other ((okay, i had cut him out of my life)) about 3-4 months ago and then we reconciled and decided to make our friendship the greatest thing EVER! yeah...yeah..

So anyhu, day 4, im still waiting.My BFF ((yeah i hear some of u saying, are we in grade school???this i got from Tim by the way)) says i should not give in and make the call to find out the real deal. Do no about that.

oh...oh..get this. Apparently i called him a few days back and caused problems. This from some one who is supposedly single. One thing bothers me though, the only way she would have known i had called him was if he told her himself coz i called off a landline not cell.

This has player written all over it!!