Understanding happens on so many levels its amazing how more and more often it feels like a light bulb going off in your head. Its like a snap! (and no im not talking about that Money Gram ad. that lies to us about getting your money across "just like that" when it actually takes 10 minutes which is logically much longer than even the slowest finger snapper can take!).
I have had to take out sometime to understand a certain person and how i should relate to them. kinda like understanding why you went from a bff to an ex-bff (im playing) but then again, that might be a good example. You know how you sooo know where you stand with someone and then one day, it changes and you wonder why.
And then the very next day you go like "riiight. whatever" because when you think about it there's no point in hussling over something thats already done. All this depends on your mood ofcourse.
Have a friend who doesnt believe in discussing issues. He thinks by the time you tell him something, you have made up your mind. Makes sense, doesnt it?
Now this is a chap you should not tell about your plans to commit suicide. He doesnt understand the concept of "cry for help". Apparently its the norm for you to know what you want and go out to get it. This makes him a good listener but useless as a "fixer". You know how you want that guy to be there and you talk non stop and not expect him to fix things or at the very least expect hm to act as if he wants to fix your problem? yeah, he isnt that for me, which is the reason i never call him when im stranded.
which reminds me, heard an interesting story of this lady whose husband caught her with her "dude of the evening" one time. Now this is a classic case of people not thinking strategies through.
Now apparently the lady and her love got stuck somewhere in the middle of nowhere coz her car broke down and she called her husband to rescue her. i had a few qns to ask.
1.what is the purpose of having this guy with you who is as helpless as you? i mean, one of you surely should know how to get out of such jams.
2.what variety of daft are you to call your husband to the rescue as you wait with your "dude".
3. what variety of stupid are you to wait for the husband to rescue you?
I have had to take out sometime to understand a certain person and how i should relate to them. kinda like understanding why you went from a bff to an ex-bff (im playing) but then again, that might be a good example. You know how you sooo know where you stand with someone and then one day, it changes and you wonder why.
And then the very next day you go like "riiight. whatever" because when you think about it there's no point in hussling over something thats already done. All this depends on your mood ofcourse.
Have a friend who doesnt believe in discussing issues. He thinks by the time you tell him something, you have made up your mind. Makes sense, doesnt it?
Now this is a chap you should not tell about your plans to commit suicide. He doesnt understand the concept of "cry for help". Apparently its the norm for you to know what you want and go out to get it. This makes him a good listener but useless as a "fixer". You know how you want that guy to be there and you talk non stop and not expect him to fix things or at the very least expect hm to act as if he wants to fix your problem? yeah, he isnt that for me, which is the reason i never call him when im stranded.
which reminds me, heard an interesting story of this lady whose husband caught her with her "dude of the evening" one time. Now this is a classic case of people not thinking strategies through.
Now apparently the lady and her love got stuck somewhere in the middle of nowhere coz her car broke down and she called her husband to rescue her. i had a few qns to ask.
1.what is the purpose of having this guy with you who is as helpless as you? i mean, one of you surely should know how to get out of such jams.
2.what variety of daft are you to call your husband to the rescue as you wait with your "dude".
3. what variety of stupid are you to wait for the husband to rescue you?
ha ha firsties!
now that lady is not stupid,she's more, actually the word is majakascnbjgsbgwaomne,its in both latin and german.
chic wanted to dump both guys and came up with an almost stellar plot.
when you figure how to figure out people, let me know. i'd love to know how.
again Tandra...
Coming clean just like me huh!!!
[impressed]
@Jasmine
we can hook up at next UBHH and share a few ideas, coz i think my two cents reach at least 55% on how to click other peeps
just dropping in...
One thing though is that many ple don't want to work towards a relationship;friendship or otherwise,so if it goes,it goes.