So the other day im watching this program called "How do i look" which is really about giving this person u know a total wadrobe makeover coz their fashion sux. (which really isnt so hard to fix especially when dealing with white or light skinned people, change the color of the hair or the cut, n u r sooooorted, try that on an African, ki ka! Anyone seen a makeover show on RecordTv, i think it is... DONT)

its hosted by Finola hughes whose dry reactions to stuff sometimes makes the show funny to watch (she b brit.

This one particular episode got me thinking though...about how much u do to make your mans life worth living and all he wants is you to be his eye candy.

Enter Olga (cant remember her name), mother of 3 boys aged between 2 n 5 takes care of kids n house by her self, has full time job n somewhat demanding husband...touching 30.

What does Olga want? to b able to make her family happy and safe

What does Mike (hubby) want? for her to look good coz she embarasses him...she isnt pretty anymore.

I didnt have a problem with the way chick dressed, infact there was no problem...okay, okay...a little colour would have helped but on the whole, she and hilary clinton clda been shoppin buddies. She was presentable if not a bit boring.

Thing that struck me though was she just wanted her husband (of 8 yrs) to say she was beautiful. Something sooo simple and yet he had NEEEEEEEVer said it to her and you could see it really hurt her. She had been and was continuing to break her back for this man who couldnt appreciate her enough to say those simple words.

When he was asked if he thought she was, he said sure. Did he ever tell her?
His answer : things like saying "you are beautiful" arent his style. He will say she looks great! or awesome!

Men!!!!!!