After jas said she'd left like huh? thot i shd make it more legible.

We have all been told (wonder who by and why) that when someone is into you, they will go out of their way to make sure you know this and do things that make you happy. This in effect means that he will move heaven and earth, if he can, to make you smile and dedicate sappy songs so you can smile yourself silly.

but really, wat defines this "being into someone thingy". how do u even know you are at that point?

It is apparently an assumption to think that just because you spend countless hours with this guy, feel the spark, become intimate..share dreams n aspirations that you are actually a couple.

Puzzling........yes. How to be sure?

Either you wait for him to actually ask you out...or you could ask him or play dumb especially if you dont want to actually be tied down ((grins)).

Other ways to know u in the zone?
Spend oodles of time together....find things to do together. Apparently this helps with the knowing each other and learning about each other part, so u know what to expect whenever.

Now, this is of some interest to me. Suppose me n darlington dont spend any physical time together and spend even less time actually doing any activities together but we text n chat like mad n actually know what we are doing, going blah blah blah....

Does this mean that coz darlington never turns up to dinners, buys me roses, hangs with my friends, never introduces me to his friends...err..watelse...doesnt know where i live n vice versa... that we are infact not a couple?

Some would say...we aint! Because he just inst into me.

But now people...who decides what "into" someone is?

Now some of you are squirming in your seats...cant waiit to jump to comments section but hear me out... i have heard that for a person to really be "into" you...they do things that would make you happy n themseleves in the process.

But if you really think about it...what then makes Peter different from Ivan. If they say they are both interested in me and go out of their way to express this... by spending "quality" time..hanging out...creating/sustaining together activities, listening to me..sharing dreams... spending the hard earned dimes... arent they just exhibiting traits Rashid and James would???

Infact darlington who eventually makes time myt be the more genuine article.

Makes u think some,huh? Now the more romantic of you are all going mushy thinking Tim knows you like no one before because aside from being suuuuuch a great guy, he knows how to make you happy. but isnt Tim reallybeing the stereotype which in effect means ....you and him are fitting a profile????? U aint really doing anything new...if you think about it....just creating a "someone" to go do "normal" things with......