As a result of that kissing sex overated post and reactions to it, i have come to the conclusion that most of you want to believe in the whole "love on cloud nine" nonsence..err..sorry...thingy..theory ((thats not it...one last try)).......... feeling (yay!!)
You want to believe that kissing and sex is an "art", something you take the time to understand, appreciate, perfect together. You want to believe (and some have indeed proved) that you need to be with the right person, the right frame of mind to have a go at it..... no..make that, to make it work to the level that you are content.
But lets be honest here. Many of you (dont worry, wont name names) would whole heartedly agree with me when i say that prostitution is really an easy trade to join.
Hear me out before im burnt at the stake!
You have been in that situation, you dont mind John but u arent ga-ga crazy over him. He's a nice enuf bloke and you know he's crushing on you. You are feeling like you "want to be wanted" so he leans in to kiss you and you let him kiss you. All the while he is getting more excited about where things could lead, you are thinking to yourself "dang! this brother dont scrub his teeth right". You are soo totally unmoved by the whole experience. But you think...oo well Johns always there for me, even when Ian doesnt feel me...i just want to be held and before you know it..down the little path of discovery (or is it instant replay?) you have gone.
As KK said, its really a simple case of mind over matter... if u don't mind it doesn't matter...
So the qn then becomes, what made some of you incurable romatics? What made some of you want to take that walk with "the one" (assuming it aint all bollocks and there is indeed "a one")).
Could it be that all the propaganda material actually worked on you? ALl the "ever after" lingo somehow reached you on a personal level huh? that song with that ka "you n me were meant to be, together for e---ternity" line did its thing???
I suppose its this faith thing thats got you going...this belief that there is someone out there for you. Yes....faith is a beautiful thing.. which is why we are told that if you mess up and end up with the wrong person, you will make a mess of four lives (yours inclusive)
Do you really want to be stuck with that responsibility???? ((just asking......))
Im guessing this is why most of us dont only want to marry the first person we date. LOL
before i forget, i hear this is the key to being a HOT kisser.. MIMIC! if he is kissing you a certain way, he prolly thinks you will like it so if u do the same... u are assured that he will be in sikith heaven!
n to loot a line from the Emrys, you know it makes sense!
You want to believe that kissing and sex is an "art", something you take the time to understand, appreciate, perfect together. You want to believe (and some have indeed proved) that you need to be with the right person, the right frame of mind to have a go at it..... no..make that, to make it work to the level that you are content.
But lets be honest here. Many of you (dont worry, wont name names) would whole heartedly agree with me when i say that prostitution is really an easy trade to join.
Hear me out before im burnt at the stake!
You have been in that situation, you dont mind John but u arent ga-ga crazy over him. He's a nice enuf bloke and you know he's crushing on you. You are feeling like you "want to be wanted" so he leans in to kiss you and you let him kiss you. All the while he is getting more excited about where things could lead, you are thinking to yourself "dang! this brother dont scrub his teeth right". You are soo totally unmoved by the whole experience. But you think...oo well Johns always there for me, even when Ian doesnt feel me...i just want to be held and before you know it..down the little path of discovery (or is it instant replay?) you have gone.
As KK said, its really a simple case of mind over matter... if u don't mind it doesn't matter...
So the qn then becomes, what made some of you incurable romatics? What made some of you want to take that walk with "the one" (assuming it aint all bollocks and there is indeed "a one")).
Could it be that all the propaganda material actually worked on you? ALl the "ever after" lingo somehow reached you on a personal level huh? that song with that ka "you n me were meant to be, together for e---ternity" line did its thing???
I suppose its this faith thing thats got you going...this belief that there is someone out there for you. Yes....faith is a beautiful thing.. which is why we are told that if you mess up and end up with the wrong person, you will make a mess of four lives (yours inclusive)
Do you really want to be stuck with that responsibility???? ((just asking......))
Im guessing this is why most of us dont only want to marry the first person we date. LOL
before i forget, i hear this is the key to being a HOT kisser.. MIMIC! if he is kissing you a certain way, he prolly thinks you will like it so if u do the same... u are assured that he will be in sikith heaven!
n to loot a line from the Emrys, you know it makes sense!
Firsties on the firsties queen's blog. Surely I deserve some kind of award.
Now if both of you mimic each other what do you end up doing? Heh heh!!
That thing of mimicking can get quite tricky if the guy can't kiss. What if he's trying to swallow you whole face or give you a face wash with his tongue?
Then what my friend heh?
prostitution is an easy trade to join? my dear, you need to be schooled!
lol... i hear mimicing makes one a hot kisser, so not true
Ok Tandra,
you need a little lesson
can i refer you??
I highly doubt this was born outta any conversation, unless it was with yourself!!!
i will nominate you, Dee LOL
31337t..i suspect u know the answer to that one (wink wink)
LOL@candy box
syb..u r just acting because "you are in people"
B2b..part of this did come from you actually ((grins))
It all begins with you- maybe from the start of things you are actually involved in Candybox's "liar paradox"......so you alone cause the confusion and take everyone along with you......
eh but skunk..nga u r deep!
hmmmm