Apparently these represnt the height of expression, affection, appreciation blah blah blah
BUt lets be honest...how much emotion do you need to put in to achieve this.
Im told sex starts in your mind and as we all know, with guys being highly visual creatures, it doesnt take a lot to get them going. A chick, depending on her overall hold on her emotional faculties, will prolly go along with these feelings being "enforced" upon her to get it done with.
Many of us were brought up to believe that kissing and therefore sex are "bad manners" which loosely translates into "sin" which ofcourse is all good once you are married ((havent figured out the logic there yet))... Im guessing its because of the moral code of the family, of commitment to bettering yourself and unit, resisting temptation and all that.
But when you really think about it, the world in which we live preaches that we should enjoy every aspect of life. Free will dictates that we shouldn't limit our experiences, after all, we only get to live once, right?
Not all of us will get to date the one person we eventually marry but that's the ideal which is why some of we were taught to pray for our husbands looooooooong ago. You know seek yee first the kingdom of God and all these things will be added unto you, pray focussed like so God can know and you can know what you looking for, blah blah blah.
I have often heard people say suuuuuuch glorius things about kissing and about sex but when you think about it, its just mouth her, insert here, thank you very much. So once you have done the deed, then what? what discoverable mystery is left??
Ofcourse there are those who say, if you call sex over rated, you aint doing it right. Hmmmmm...wonder how many........ u had to ....... to come to that conclusion, iz all im not saying..
err... I'll b back to conclude.....
we know who is getting and who isn't gettin any!!
@Joshi
Major lols...
@Miss_Tandra
Will be waiting for these conclusions...
I like the definition of free will...
U know you haven't said shyte!
i like the new look, keep it, please?
i stick with the line: "if you call sex over rated, you aint doing it right!"
well, i really dont know frankly but i so believe in the stone age thing of the right person right time and place and all them right etc's can be a magical experience and well free will, does not mean no discipline. i think its all about the right etc's to enjoy sex coz it was created for pleasure at the right time... forgive me bloging on your blog..
Nice new theme. :o)
Talking about sex, me I insist: if you think sex ain't all that, you are not doing it right. :o) At least that's what seems to make the most sense to me.
wo, i totally agree with lulu, all the way,
joshi!!!
B2B..this coming from u is...err..shocking LOL
Me..thanks.. ur line..OKAY!
Lulu..a little too romantic and idealistic, dont u think?
27th..thanks.. safe answer that..
EMrys. wat? u r one of "them" LOL
when you are safely married, you will so know that it is not overrated... as for kissing, don't see any harm in it before marriage.
Do i detect some variation from the point syb?
whats with this "safely married", are u saying ur normally "amourus" sorry adventurous character is dumbed down after marriage?? dont want!!
kissing before marriage? u are okay with this??
Have u heard that kissing is like sharing a piece of uwa self..so technically u will have less of urself when u eventually get married LOL
u know it makes sense!
Ha! Tandra Joshi is dead on the mark. Woman kissing is an art, some have mastered some havent( clearyly the ones u have met). Ok who is the macenary we need to send to Tandra's aid??? Joshi can u disprove her....
kissing before marriage is not a sin... yes i am okay with it.
that bit of sharing a piece of yourself is with sex... joining of souls, 2 become 1... not with kissing.
what's with the whole Sex debate making rounds recently?
and oh, Love, this thing here:
"I have often heard people say suuuuuuch glorius things about kissing and about sex but when you think about it, its just mouth her, insert here, thank you very much. So once you have done the deed, then what? what discoverable mystery is left??"...
If that's what you really think, please please please, do not kiss anybody or have sex with anyone till you have been to Rehab.
somebody needs to help you.
Wabula Tandra and template chages...everytime I pop in for soft drinks, I find a new furniture setting.
Lol @Me...for real. I will comment of the over-ration(if the word exists) of sexual behaviour later. I need to have experience first.
-Cheri
Like I always preach, to anyone that wud listen, the fun of it (sex) is in this equation.
Orgasm = Length of the male shaft X the time taken for sperms to travel from base to tip, which is approximately several seconds.
What happens before or after is nothing.
I could have sworn i'd posted a comment here yesterday. Oh well.
Bomseh i presume you're talking about men right?
Now thats what i call frustration.
pure frustration.tremendous i love it.
sex again? i think we need some sort of sex talk. anyone ready to hire a ssenga? i'll bring the bottle of red. and we can have a good laugh. GIRLS ONLY!!
You,
i done that tagging thing and you are IT!!
kissing before marriade is a sin?!?!?!?!
really???
this is what some ppl would call a controversial topic...
I am still debating....
Wama T, if you kissed u wont get pregnant!! All those things they taught you in single school are lies..
I’m still learning to kiss but it feels good. I’m yet to make love. I hope it will be great when I do. And on the beach or some place like that.
See what your template is doing to me? I love it.
"if you think sex is overrated you aint being done right"
Peace, please no, not on the beach, it is not as glamorous as you think, wind, sand, creepy crawlies...i do not think i would, not on the sand or in the water....
Am sorry, what were we debating again? I think its a simple case of mind over matter... if u don't mind it doesn't matter... still not sure what we were talking about but my argument still applies.
Err- T- you trying to choose between your heart and your conscience? Which one do you be trying to confuse...