So yesterday i was with this friend and her boi (yeah, third partying ruuuuuuuuuuuuules!), actually technically she was the third party coz she joined us later (((falls off chair laughing))so anyway, it got me to thinking...
Would i allow my boi to go chill with my very good friend? like aaa-lone n stuff?well technically not aaa-lone coz it would be.. (no justifying!) and i prolly would. I thought about this coz my galfriends have issues with things like that which i can understand to some extent.
They wont ever let Brain go out with Stella, heck no! even when Stella is in a steady relationship. I suspect that its coz you dont trust either party. Its either coz a) Brain tends to stray or b)Stella cant help it if guyz be falling for her all the time.
There's ofcos the cissy in your group u cannot afford to fight with because Cissy is vindictive. She will set out to get your man at any cost. Do u let Brain even see her, heck no!
Asked my friend abt it this morning, she said she trusts him and her friends. A bit too trusting in this really wierd twisted world. According to me, no man is worth stressing over that much, if dude wants to stray, he will..there aint nuthing u can do about it plus if someone is trully ur friend, they wldnt eeeeevvven want to come between you.
This is where the trick comes in. It is said u pick ur friends to reflect sides of you so by that definition, you hava stella and a Cissy in you (warped but possible) which means, while you stand and proclaim your trust in your man and your friends, you have the potential to be a femme fatal and actually cause some relationship breakups. Think about it.
Off to do an assignment i dont really want to. Later.
Would i allow my boi to go chill with my very good friend? like aaa-lone n stuff?well technically not aaa-lone coz it would be.. (no justifying!) and i prolly would. I thought about this coz my galfriends have issues with things like that which i can understand to some extent.
They wont ever let Brain go out with Stella, heck no! even when Stella is in a steady relationship. I suspect that its coz you dont trust either party. Its either coz a) Brain tends to stray or b)Stella cant help it if guyz be falling for her all the time.
There's ofcos the cissy in your group u cannot afford to fight with because Cissy is vindictive. She will set out to get your man at any cost. Do u let Brain even see her, heck no!
Asked my friend abt it this morning, she said she trusts him and her friends. A bit too trusting in this really wierd twisted world. According to me, no man is worth stressing over that much, if dude wants to stray, he will..there aint nuthing u can do about it plus if someone is trully ur friend, they wldnt eeeeevvven want to come between you.
This is where the trick comes in. It is said u pick ur friends to reflect sides of you so by that definition, you hava stella and a Cissy in you (warped but possible) which means, while you stand and proclaim your trust in your man and your friends, you have the potential to be a femme fatal and actually cause some relationship breakups. Think about it.
Off to do an assignment i dont really want to. Later.
hmmmmm... so what did you do with her 'boi'?
but seriously, what is a relationship without trust? and a true friend always has your best interests at heart.
your friends are a reflection of you... need to dump ... and ... hmmmm and ... too. oh my!
There is trust but then there are boundries! I trust my man and I trust my gurlfriend but I believe in boundries. For instance a long time ago I had a gurlfriend who used to call my man for advice. She took it to far when she called him at night! I had to nip that in the bud because that is a boundry issue.
Out of respect she should never have called my man (even though it was platonic) for advice at 1:00am. Why didn't she call me?
So in conclusion, there are boundries. He didn't pick up the phone and I trusted him to know better but she needed to learn some boundries. We aren't that close any more which is sad but then again, maybe it is for the best.
So, there is dinner and then there is "dinner"
you are 100% correct. You can stop man who wnats to stray nor would a real friend take your man. Like my people say dat one eh na true talk.
Ok...
3rd party rules..
i had no idea... LOL!!!
[Potential_To_Be_A_Femme_Fatale]
hmmmn
[My_Take]
if he trusts youand you know it, then she shouldn't really be causing any such situations whereby any un-necessary drama can erupt
if she trust you, then the ditto
only ish that sets in along the way that might cause a few dramatic issues is the word "complacency"
A really uneek level of satisfaction which in my case is really er.... a test...
[Impressed] again Tandra..
@Sy
A true friend always does have your best interests at heart!
Doesn't mean you should er be complacent
@Poetic-Jay
U have a man...
U also have a gurlfriend
LOL!!
Dinner.... That's ok
Dinner, hmmmn Way too tricky!!
This post again justifies a few things...
Infact i'ma drop one real soon @ mine
LOl! Sorry sweety but it aint tha kind of party. Gurlfriend meaning best girlfriend. Totally straight and not looking to "taste the other fruit!"