The other day, some debate got started because of a certain post. The short of the post was this successful babe decided to pay some guy to father her baby. Trick was she landed for him a bit and slept with him longer than necessary in the name of merchandise acquisition.. okay.. she plain liked dude!
So she has baby... (did i mention that he happened to be married?) and decides being a mum once was quite enough.
The peep who led me to the post was sooooooooooooooo peeved coz apparently it isnt African to pay someone to father your child let alone for the man to allow to be used so.
Now i ask.. if you want a child, without the hustle of clinger on husband/boyfriend/man friend person.. what should you do? And really if you find a willing party.. is it such a crime?
So she has baby... (did i mention that he happened to be married?) and decides being a mum once was quite enough.
The peep who led me to the post was sooooooooooooooo peeved coz apparently it isnt African to pay someone to father your child let alone for the man to allow to be used so.
Now i ask.. if you want a child, without the hustle of clinger on husband/boyfriend/man friend person.. what should you do? And really if you find a willing party.. is it such a crime?
you said "such a crime".
i would direct the person concerned to a spem bank, get the seed there and proceed, then again i would not wish to have my child raised away from me, i am like that, i would like positive and sustained input in the daily life of the fruit of my loins.
and i totally adore this template.
keep it or i shall promise swift and total [painful too] annihilation of your-selufu and anything that will be within 3 kilometers of where you shall be at at the instant i discover that this template is gone.
3 sorry.. shda said is it a "crime"..
u do know the sperm bank denies any physical pleasure right?
ooo and thank you! and those threats.. were be the actual action,huh?? huh?? what!
Don't worry T.. I gots your back covered... and your selufu too, whatever that be. I do like the template too... I think. You prolly changed it as I was composing my post of a comment. But that's ok...I'll like the next one too. And to answer your question... or was it questions, one should do what one feels is in their best interests as long as they do not hurt the interests of others.
It is not such a crime... well, is jumping the lights at 2AM a crime... I did that last night... no this morning... And I do not feel guilty about it... but am sure that wouldn't sway a magistrate looking to put me away.
The new theme: win. :o)
That's all.
I like the temp. :)
*Moral questions are tricky-
What's with people's righteous indignation? Do they have no issues in their own lives they have to go and interfere in other people's matters? It's up to the people involved so we should all shut up and concentrate on our own issues!
Finally I can respond to ur posts..I couldn't before..
I read about a similar story..only diff is the guy didn't know all she wanted was a baby...(She paid him in kind...set up his business..bought the hse..bought him stuff)....and he fell in love..and was so hurt when she left..so for some..I say adopt..adopt..adopt
And to think I didn't take this offer seriously, maybe money was going to be dished out?
But I don't really see anything wrong with surrogates, so long as the ralationship remains just that, as in, no feelings atttached.
You layout changed right? I'm not going insane...right? It looks great!
the man was already in a relationship (he was married)- that is not hustle free already.
adoption? kid is already in existence , just needs someone to take care of them?