So.. remember when i talked about easter plans n how i was going to be a fifth wheel.. same thing happened to me this morning. Do i have a ka sign thats says "baaaaaaaaack up... realllly back up" or what?

I log onto yahoo and this "friend" who we shall name kay was trez excited to see me.. im wondering why, and rightly so. After the usual plesantries out conversation went like:

K: i wanted to tell u about some plot i have for satuday.

T: okay......

K: anyway David n Noah were thinkin of beach plot on sat afternoon, so was wondering if u want to come, not sure hw many people are comin but, noah, sam, patrick n sara, david n I, karen n Nathan, Sophie n Robin, Robins's sister. havent told Bernad and Stella but will tll them. ohh Pam n u maybe

Now, i know what you are thinking... the invite came in the first line.... right? some how that thing of putting me at the end with Pam Maybe? some how negates the whole thing...

But then again, maybe im being hyper sensitive.. but this is a peep i have know for a looooooooooong time, im prolly being consulted coz im online.

Im more than 96% sure i aint going... but shd i change my mind (which i'm like 99% sure aint gonna happen), need company. Any takers?

2. I have decided that when the time comes, im going to throw myself a baby shower simply because i cannot stand women being "women" on me. I already have issues deciding on what should be done but i have met my match in some women i know!

I have spent the better part of my morning discussing a baby shower with this person who doesnt want to be the "committee" chair person. I understand that. I get that. Who wants to be saddled with the whole "direct adults" thing? The problem is she is the mother-to-be's tight.

The rest of us are in e.t.c.

Imma paste the conversation... maybe u will understand why i was frustrated.

T: speakin of which sandy's thing, a date hasnt been decided on

N: nope.... not even de food we were gooing to discuss wat shld b on de menu

T:wat abt a date first so we can plan knowing WHEN we will be spending..hello!

N:okay that is true. woman can we just b thinkin of food wat basic things shld b there

T:salad thingies. well depends on what we planning to eat. if its abbq or just serious heavy lunch or just snacks

N: chick we r plannin to eat food

T: ...people will b bringing but the menu has to be decided on thats y im asking wat kind of shower it is. r we coming to drink tea?ki ki?

N: no we r not didnt u see de list of drink gladys has well we can add on de sodas n beer for those who drink it that is why we need to kn hw many people r comin n we plan

T: no... that is y we need to know wat we serving

N: okay so wat r we servin

T: babe,u keep tossin the qn back n i keep tossing it back. so far i have suggested which u jam. suggested bbq, u jam so err...u need to come up with something

N: ohh i thout u were askin.... wat do u mean tea it will b afternoon who will want tea? unless if it is raining but it is a gd idea so we can get Sandy to make tea, coca cola, krest

T: but the boyz will sit down to tea?i die!!!!

N: no that is whyi said we need beer n de alcohol that gladys has

T: yeah... so u r going to give them biscuits n beer???

N: woman, food if the thing is at 3pm or afternoon that means the guys r comin to eat rite

T: which brings us exactly back to the same point which was wat i have been asking u all this time

N: okay... i thout we r trying to come up with a menu

T: which is y i have been asking u wat kind of thing it is heavy food? or bbq? n heavy food we talking matooke, rice, irish...meats or what?

N: am also asking u we all have to decide and i think it shld b heavy food coz if its afternoon into evening the we need to eat plus de guys will probably b drinkin so they need somthin to aet that is heavy....no matooke maybe bbq kind can also

I have presently put N on hold. I just could take it annnnnymore.I could take the tennis match any more especially when we can have this conversation allllllllllllllll day long.

If you cant see why im frustrated, then u n N should hook up.

Im telling you.. mine i will organize or besti will... surely there has to be one organised person in the lot. Oba u dont want.. u dont come!!


Meanwhileanyone know where jasmine went???